Annie tagged me yet again :P

I AM : WHAT I AM ;-) ... charming , funny and cute, and also fiercely independent ...watver the bottom line is M irresistible hahah


I THINK : I am a pretty nice person ;-) , I think about almost anything and everything, my mind is hyper compared to my body :-D


I KNOW : that I need to lose weight like annie :P


I WANT : My dad back :|, to start my life afresh (Fat chance:P) I want the old days back :'(


I HAVE: a thirst for learning a lot of new stuff in my life! , a zest for life ;-)


I WISH : I don't wish anymore, what ever should happen , will happen anyway, whats the point in wishing anyway *rolls eyes* ? But i do Wish my EX best friend LOl a very happy birthday today :)


I HATE : My fears , i need to conquer em soon!!


I MISS : One and only my DAD forever :'(


I FEAR : DEATH ( as if fearing would help me haha :P)


I HEAR : Voices inside my head at times *seriously* =))


I SMELL : Have a very bad cold, nose is completely blocked, so sorry I don't smell a thing right now ;-)


I CRAVE : for chocolates, ice creams , so basically anything that makes me gain a pound in a second >:) mwahahha


I SEARCH: only in GOOGLE (lame i Know:P)


I WONDER : if at all, I can have a normal life like the sane people around me :P


I REGRET : the list is endless, move on shall we ? ;-)


I LOVE : My family, friends , My doggie!!


I ACHE : when i see happy families around me . I don't have ONE now:'(


I WAS NOT : as hawt(read fat ) as I am right now LMAO=))


I AM NOT : as insensitive and unemotional as I portray myself to be :D


I CRY : only in front of myself :|


I BELIEVE: in MYSELF!!


I DANCE : when No 1 is watching :D (Cant help it , if I have two left feet, Itz a genetic flaw peeps :P)


I SING : all the time, till people threaten to choke the hell outta me haha!! :D


I READ : anything and everything. I love reading books, blogs, newspapers, magazines, letters whatever :P ;-)


I DONT ALWAYS : speak my mind. I tend to tell a lot of white lies.


I FIGHT : with people who are close to me ONLY!


I WRITE : a lot, most of my blogs are still unpublished ;-)


I WIN : almost all arguments,even if am wrong ;-)


I LOSE : my pens all the time!! *I wonder whats with pens and me seriously*


I NEVER : would hurt anyone intentionally !


I ALWAYS : Like to be myself!


I CONFUSE : Independence day and republic day :| ..and also shirts and t-shirts, odd and even :|:| these three are the things I confuse almost ALWAYS!


I LISTEN : to the same songs I like over n over again, till I get bored of Em :P


I CAN USUALLY BE FOUND : in a group of people, laughing in the loudest pitch ever :P


I AM SCARED : of being too much in love with someone*Ouch! even the memory hurts*


I NEED : to sort out my messed up life !


I AM HAPPY : When I am with animals , or I do something good for another living being!:)


I IMAGINE : almost anything which can be remotely related to being WEIRD :D


Now I just pass on the tag to anyone and everyone who pass by my blog.

About Annie - I think, she is an amazing human being, tough on the outside but so tender on the inside !!:) Mwah >:d<

Quiz mania :P

Frankly I wanted to post something , but was too lazy! :P ....so this is all YOU get ha ha ha !!

Here is the result of my QUIZ(s)!!

You Are a Life Blogger!

Your blog is the story of your life - a living diary. If it happens, you blog it. And you make it as entertaining as possible. You may be guilty of over-sharing a bit on your blog, but you can't help it. Your life is truly an open book. Or in this case, an open blog!

What Kind of Blogger Are You?

You Are Charming and Eloquent

You are influential and persuasive. You tend to have a lot of power over people. Generally, you use your powers for good. You excel at solving other people's problems. Occasionally, you do get a little selfish and persuade people to do things that are only in your interest. You are wild, crazy, and a huge rebel. You're always up to something. You have a ton of energy, and most people can't handle you. You're very intense. You definitely are a handful, and you're likely to get in trouble. But your kind of trouble is a lot of fun. You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection. You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive. You have the classic "Type A" personality. You are full of energy. You are spirited and boisterous. You are bold and daring. You are willing to do some pretty outrageous things. Your high energy sometimes gets you in trouble. You can have a pretty bad temper at times. You are truly an original person. You have amazing ideas, and the power to carry them out. Success comes rather easily for you... especially in business and academia. Some people find you to be selfish and a bit overbearing. You're a strong person.

What's Your Name's Hidden Meaning?

Guys Like That You're Sensitive

And not in that "cry at a drop of a hat" sort of way You just get most guys - even if you're not trying to Guys find it is easy to confide in you and tell you their secrets No wonder you tend to get close quickly in relationships!

What Do Guys Like About You?

I knew this was coming up! LOL =))

Your Inner Gender is Male

You are rational, matter of fact, and quite dominant. You like to get things done, without any emotional messiness. You truly don't understand most women. And you definitely feel more comfortable around men. No doubt about it. You're a guy - at least on the inside.

What's Your Inner Gender?

Nabila Tagged me!! (Gargi , Apurva and Meenaxi plz do pay attention...m crying out loud here LOL!!)

Nabila aka Nabs has tagged me...

M tagging the following blogs....if you have been tagged olready, do let me know ;-)


I...Me...Myself...

Casual Contemplations

Crazy Beginnings



Now as I have no clue what tagging is all about, am just gonna copy and paste nabs questions with ma answers of course duhh !! :-P



RULE 1: People who are tagged must write their answers to the tag and change any question they like.
RULE 2: Tag 3 people and they cannot refuse to do this tag. They must write who tagged them and cannot tag that person again. Continue the game. And I hope it will be sheer fun.

1. If your lover betrayed you, what would be your reaction?
I would feel bad obviously, but thank my lucky stars that i realized sooner that he is the KING of loser's ..(I mean cheating on me ...what a looser ha ha :P LOL).

2. If you have one dream which could come true, it would be?
My dad next to me , talking and praising me and loving me forever and ever!! 8-> :)

3.Who is more blessed-loving someone or being loved by someone?
If u r loved by someone unconditionally, you are the most lucky/ blessed person!! PERIOD!

4. Can you fall in love with your best friend ?
Yep....better than weirdos any day! but would think 100 times before making the decision!!

5. How long would you wait for someone you love?
I wanna be all dramatic and say ALL MY LIFE lol....i can wait, but if the person takes advantage of it, though it might take some time to get into my dumb mind, once i realize other person is not serious , i can well say "GET THE FUCK OUTTA MA LIFE!!"

6. If the person you like is secretly attached, what would you do?
Secretly attached *blush blush* ....i would be a lil more bolder is voicing ma opinions *whistles*

7. If you could root for one social cause, what would it be?
CHILD ABUSE and ANIMAL ABUSE !!Sorry i can't choose between the two!!

8. What according to you is blogger in denial?
I have no clue, what you are talking about LOL=)) ..Well just to venture a random guess would be like someone who wants to deny what they personal think and try to accept they are different by blogging what they think they believe in and not what they are ...Whatever come on i have no CLUE :P

9. What’s your fear ?
Death!! I have a Phobia , fear is an understatement!!!

10. What colour are your socks now?
I ain't wearing any socks at 10:30 PM sowwie :P

11. What are you listening to now?
Avril - Girl Friend : Somethinbg which has been in ma playlist for ages:P

12. What takes you down fastest?
Dishonesty, lack of trust , liars and most of all BETRAYAL !!

13. Which one do you prefer - ice-cream or chocolate?
I prefer not to answer such a Controversial Question. Sorry !! LOL

14. What would you do with a billion dollars?
Ha ha good one!at the top of my mind right now.... I would donate to Blue cross for sure !!:P ...apart from that m no saint so I wud spoil myself and my frends!!

15. What was the last thing you ate?
I ate Dosa and then some Bread and Sauce ...recently m so hungry i keep hogging on anything i get 8-|

16. How old are you today?
Aww! what an indecent QN *shocked*, am always SWEET SIXTEEN !! hahahhah

17. How do you vent out your anger?
To be honest, I vent it out only on people I love...am ashamed to say this , but HEY am working on it !!b-) :D :"> :P

18. Favourite toy as a child?
My Teddy bear and my barbie!!

18. Favorite season?
Never thought so much about seasons. I like a drizzling LAZY day but def'ly not a rainy day !!

19. When was the last time you cried?
When i fought with ma best frend 3 weeks back :|

20. Who is the friend you have had the longest?
My bestie...since we were in 6th Grade! we r still best of buds *touchwood* <3

21. What did you do last night?
Spoke to ma EX ( He proposed to me :|) 8-|

22. Favorite day of the week?
SUNDAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!! ahhhhhhhhhh Blissssss 8->

23. Diamond or pearl?
Diamond Hands down!!!

24.Would you be single & rich or married & poor ?
Rich and single! Duhhh :P

25.What is the first thing you do when you wake up?
RUNNNNNN TO take a shower and RUN EVEN MORE to get ready and get the hell outta the house , cos i wake up soooo late for office every single day LOL

26.If you fall in love with two people simultaneously, whom would you pick?
You tell me , M in dat situation right now LOL !!

27.Would you give all in a relationship ?
I would , but since i have learnt my lessons , i would if ma better half tries to give a little too ! m not gonna be d one whos always giving !! x-(

28.What’s eating you now ?
Ma Life , the beautiful proposal i turned down , everything around me GRRRRRRR x-( :P

29.Do you prefer being single or in a relationship?
SINGLE SINGLE SINGLE !! Gimme a break SERIOUSLY !!!! :|

30. Your opinion of 3 bloggers who you are going to tag and the one who tagged you.
Nabs:The Hawt chik! the sensible one and d one gurl whos life and habits r freakishly similar to mine !!!

About the ones who I m tagging – I don't know any of the three personally :|
Gargi– The gurl , whoz working hard and studying equally well , at such a young age ..So Independent !!! *Salutes*
Apurva- Crazy Freak LOL ....Very sweet gurl as far as i have seen her around, she is like d cutest KIDDO ! *Kisses and hugs*
Meenaxi- Fellow Tamilian, Nice blogger ...amazingly sensible from what I have seen of her !!! *Bows*

Marriages through E-Matrimony!!

When I Look at my blog Posting Page, All i see is Drafts which had at one time been waiting to be published but the Laziness of this Writer has made them sit there forever . So i decided that if i take time to write a blog, i will make sure i finish it. And by boldly saying this I know , first of all I have to finish this one :| :P at least by the end of the day. Today priyankas scrap has made me realize i have neglected not one but both of my blogs. I have finished writing up some crap for that one. But this one, would have to use my Creativity (Hopefully I have it).

Well right now one of my friends parents have started looking for a guy for her. And i will explain to you the process they used with the maximum information I have. I know not everyone's marriage is finalized this way. But yet a lot of people might agree with me on this one ;-)

First parents come to the girl/Guy, keep asking her/him "its time for you to get married beta". The first time the children shrug it off, then once the parents become more and more persistent, the children after making up all excuses they can think of, finally accept and say " yeah go ahead". These are the words which any Mom or Dad needs to hear and the Mom tells the daughter , "you don't worry , only if u like the guy, You need to marry him." or vice versa (SInce they r happy that their children did not fall into the web of LOve ;-) )

All done, Guy/Girl is relieved that the Nagging period is over and goes to work. The parent as soon as talking to their children Log into Bharathmatrimony.com , Shaadi.com, Jeevansathi.com etc etc. They create an Online profile for their children . When did this trend become so popular? Not long back ,when i was in 10th or 11th grade my parents used to be talking about my cousins marriage. there all the horoscopes were hand picked from highly trusted people who would be ready to give a Highly recommended testimonial about the Guy/ Girl. once that was settled, the parents would exchange horoscopes and the procedure would move on from there. I ain't complaining here . But when majority of the people still think that chatting and online acquaintance is to be doubted, how can this trend become so popular.How can someone accept a proposal from someone named M1366592 ??? Maybe I am a die hard romantic but this E- matrimony thing does not fit my Bill at all. I believe in falling in Love and all romantic, mushy mushy crap! even while am saying this that millions of hopeful parents maybe including mine *Gulp* are filling out profiles or looking for M344512 and M5681134 to decide the perfect choice for their children!

Call me traditional, but even as time changes, I would not like to get married to M341289!!! I prefer a real person with a name even if it is an arranged marriage. Well my friend who i was referring to earlier and who gave me a topic for this blog was not so lucky. Her parents created a profile the day she said Yes! and the third day they got a match and she has met this M23456 who has a name now, but unfortunately she is not seeing any sparks flying!!!

Who knows what I will land up in future. with the trend creating popularity and making things easier, maybe our destined choices might be a 7 digit code waiting for us at CCD or barista and make polite conversation (as it happened with my frend) and be happy that his/her parents choice of the 7 digit code was indeed good.

PS: am not against the sites which do this, but against the Whole concept!


So for all of you reading this blog, i hope that You fall for a real person than a M453671 !! Romantic fools like me are advised to be cautious :P....:)


and well my knight in shinning Armour has turned out to be a Looser in aluminum foil, but if we sort out things ,he may become the knight in shining Armour again after all LOL :d!

Cheers to all the people to have found their Mr. Right from these E matrimony sites!!

Boreeeeeeeeddddddddddd...... :D

Why do people get bored? How many times have we heard this? What are you doing now? Oh!!! Am soooooo booreddd!!! ;-) So many times isn’t it? Well I decided to think why I or so many of us are getting bored? Some of the most common reasons are because we end up doing the same thing everyday and crave to do something new, or we end up having a lot of free time and don’t know what to do about it. Why do we keep saying we are bored, why don’t we try to do something to keep us occupied? How can we escape this boredom? Why don’t we start doing something creative , let the mind think of crazy ideas , go wild in your thoughts , come on you need not do whatever you think , but we can think about so many things , which cant be done in reality and if possible achieve some of our dreams isn’t it? Most of the times when we are bored , we feel like the clock isn’t moving , we are stuck at one place and so want the clock to move faster than ever!

But when I decided to write about boredom, I went through a few websites to understand it better and write something meaningful and what I read was “Far from being a minor annoyance, boredom can have major negative impacts on people. Perhaps more importantly, boredom is often a symptom of deeper problems, such as depression, ineffective teaching, or ineffective management in a workplace.” So I guess I need to think a lot now about why am getting bored: D ,on a serious note , we all should start trying to concentrate on something rather than being bored . As they say “An idle mind is a devils workshop” so don’t keep your mind idle whenever you are bored the next time , try to do something which you always wanted to do , try going out for a pleasant walk ,try out a new recipe u always wanted to do ,call up your school mate you always wanted to , but didn’t have time to call them , take up your favorite book and lie down in your bed ,do something useful ,because boredom eventually leads us to depression and we all don’t want that . One of the best ways to get rid of boredom is Meditation. Meditation helps to calm the mind, and it works for everyone. I remember a time in my school days, when we had compulsory meditation before our lunch hour and I used to hate it so much, all of us used to be so hungry and were waiting for the bell to ring to run and eat: D .Now when I think of it I think I could have used the time to concentrate and get some relief , well anyway I was too young to understand it , so now I think I should start to do my meditation seriously and get along with my life ,and as I write I get deviated from my topic :D , so boredom should be handled in such a way , we should like what we do , we cant do something else and end up getting bored , just because your friend joined the music class , don’t run to enroll your name there , think if you like it and then join it , else you will end up getting even more bored .so don’t allow boredom to push you deep inside a tunnel , where u get depressed and start thinking of sad things in your life , life out there has so much to give us , we have loads and loads of things to enjoy in this world , so get rid of your boredom enter the cheerful life and have fun , I am trying to get rid of my boredom by writing, or reading my favorite books my first attempt and hope I get some more things to do , so will you ….b-)

So try to get your mind thinking the next time you get bored, just don’t star at your ceiling and think Man am bored I got nothing to do, and as am one of the persons who is bored the most, I would like you people who read this to give me and all the other readers some of your innovative ideas as to how to get rid of boredom .and am sure once we get rid of this boredom in our life , we or at least I can achieve something too with my boring life………:P