A Wedding Gift to a dear Friend, Colleague!

Walks in and out,
A chirpy bird.
A ear for every rambles,
A ear for every woes.

A friend if you need one,
Never an enemy!
A smile always to light,
The bluest of days.

Comes out of the way,
To help, to share, to guide
An amateur’s delight!

As the brim fills,
As the days near,
I only wish her merry and more..

You will be missed by heart a many,
Yet, you have taken the breath away
Of an innocent victim,
Blessed to be your other half
May the happiness spread,
The joys divide,
As you embark the Journey of your life!

Seven years of accomplishment
Yet a legacy to leave, or so she says!

Wishing you a legacy and more!
Happy Wedding Day!

Habitat:
This species may have its origin in “God’s own country”, but it is predominantly found in Cathedral Road,. To be more Specific “ HM! Office”. Occasionally found near Koyembedu too. Soon to migrate to the Northen regions.
Food:
Scarcely found to be interested in a commodity known as food. Pecks around something edible, occasionally at noon. Other than this, it has been rarely observed savoring it.
Identification:
Pretty Mallu, always found wearing a smile and matching accessories. Reliable sources say, all the pretty dresses are soon up for Sale!
Temperament:
Ever Smiling, Never takes offence. An amazing friend.

HAPPY WEDDING DAY – Bhavya & Girish!
May 22, 2011.

Day 31 - Who are you?

Who am I?? Well, If I start again after writing incessantly for a month, am sure most of you would like to kick me or WORSE, Delete my Facebook Profile *Shudders =P*. So I would like to say to know more about me, (Only if you really really wanna KNOW!) please go through my previous posts. I have described myself amply well.

TODAY, "Who am I", Am a PROUD INDIAN who BLEEDS BLUE BABY!

Finally, am giving all of you a break from my so called writing spree =P. I still can't belive, I made it upto Day 31. *Pats on the back*

Comments regarding all my posts are always WELCOME =D. Encourage me!!! :-)...

• Do you see a promising writer??, Let me know!!!
• Do you see myself improving on my vocabulary/ Scentence formation??, Let me Know!!!
• Bored Already??... Do NOT let me know!! =D

GO INDIA, The world cup Beckons!!! :)

Day 30 - Your first love

Animals, particularly Puppies! =D

Day 29 - In this past month, what have you learned?

I have learnt that, I need to be more responsible and independent in the upcoming years. I have life long commitments and keeping that in mind, i should focus and work accordingly! No major or shocking lessons learnt, but growing older ( There, I just said it =(( ....=P) , teaches you some peculiar lessons every day. Not to forget, I have learnt that am back in the ' Writing Game', even if you hate it! =D

Overall March has been an unusual month.

Disappointments, achievements, happiness, frustrations, regrets, all put together, shaken rigorously, and served with a PINCH of salt to taste!

That does not taste as bad as you think, still it leaves a bitter taste in your mouth, if at all you know, what I mean?!?! =P

Day 28 - A picture of you last year and now, how have you changed since then?

Back then (July 2010)

Recent Past (Jan 2011)

Now if you see there is hardly 6 months difference between the two pictures, So no great difference!

Hmmm, how have I changed!!

• Well, I guess am more independent in financial desicions . M still broke at the end of the month :P , but have started thinking about future, tax savings schemes, investments blah blah :D

• I was so excited to get my first ATM card, First Salary around three years back! But now its got boring. Money brings in commitment and I wish I could stop growing up and CRY! =P

• Apart from that, I am trying to further myself academically by trying to study something. By next year am sure, I would be doing Masters!
• As of now no more of fun, random, spur of the moment events, am cautious *sighs* and plan stuff.
• Renewed some friendships which were due to childish tiffs :D
  

Basically to cut the long story short, I have become BORING! :-)

Day 27 - What you think about your friends?

My Friends are such a huge group of people, which I cannot define on a whole!

I have some very close friends, some distantly-close, some online i-haven't-met-ya-but-u-r-my-best-friend types and the list goes on, to end with people who I whine being associated with :P

On a whole, I guess my friends do not fit any particular category, they are just from all walks of life and "click" with me you know?

They can be loyal, eccentric, honest, cute, bubbly, weird, rude, snobbish etc etc but the point is if they are my friend, I would love them all the same!

Some have been sore disappointing too, who I would rather not say out aloud what I wish to do with em!!

All said and done, they are my friends so they are the BEST!!!

PS: I am extremely disappointed with, what I have written. At the same time, I am too lazy to re write it! Maybe later ;)

Day 26 - Something you crave for a lot?

Loosing weight. Period!

Day 25 - What I would find in your bag?

Such a personal question, and am asked to explain it? Atrociousness! :D

I warn you!, You would really NOT want to know :P

• 3 Wallets - Yes, you heard it right! :-D. One for my cards, One for loose change and another one even I dunno why am lugging it around =))
• Tissues
• Balm
• Deo
• Loose change everywhere (Apart from the wallet, you got it right! :D)
• Chewing Gum
• ATM Receipt SLIPS
• Passport Photographs
• Dad's ID card
• Sunglasses
• Earring's
• Chocolates ( Most often)
• Random receipts
• Mobile
• Mobile charger
• Mobile Headphones
• Keys
• Pens
• Hair clips
• Hair bands
• Comb

I am tired, this will do for now, Won't it? :P

Day 24 - Nicknames you have & why do you have them

Having a short name and a sweet personality, prevents people from naming me! :D

• Kannama/ Bahrain Queen - Okay don't laugh, but my dad used to be always too proud of me and used to call me endearingly with these names :-) .
  

Other than that, I dont remember anymore as there is no significant name which caught on!

• My mom calls me PraBBBHHHHAAA , Praaaaabha, PRABHAAA etc etc depending on her mood and my actions :P. i.e., each way of calling me is directly proportional to the amount of anger, love, frustration etc she has on me at that point of time! :P
  

• Around five years back, with the internet boom making its presence on me, I got a name or rather an Alter Ego! named SEN or Seno. This name is still prevelant amongst certain circles and people prefer this name and strangely, I respond to it as much as I respond to my name.

Day 23 - A letter to someone who hurt you?

Dear X,

I have written something way long back, which will make you cringe and dwarf with shame, if at all you get the chance to read it. But hey!, I forgot, you dont have a consiencse right?

I do want to tell you though, I forgive very easily, but sadly for you, I don't have it in me to FORGET ( Blame it on my memory :P, Just so you have something to blame on me...see I have helped you out even here!)

it will be too long and boring for my readers to read too, so here is an extract of it. I know you might not read it, but hopefully it reaches you :). Hopefully your snooping habits will land you here :D

I do feel cheated and betrayed,

But HEY, I blame only myself.

That ought to cool your FROZEN HEART!

You know what irks me even now?

The way you wear the ANGEL MASK!

The way you portray yourself to the world,

Of what a kind hearted soul you are??

WEDNESDAY, JULY 22, 2009

FYI : I have been hurt by a lot of people , like everyone else have. I am NORMAL after all and not some saviour who will forgive and make up!

But just so you know peeps, I don't give a damn!

Love,

Prabha

Coming up next "

Day 24 - Nicknames you have & why do you have them?"

A picture of something that makes you happy

Makes me Happy and Sad at the same time!

LOVE YOU BABY! :)

Coming up next " Day 23 - A letter to someone who hurt you? "

Day 21 - Bullet your whole day.

A typical week day! Except for the cooking which is random, others are true to the best of my knowledge! :D

• Snooze Alarm
• Snooze Alarm
• Snooze Alarm
• Mom says its 9:30, Jump out of bed, to realize it is actually 8:30 Am. Not bad :)
• Breakfast
• Rush to work
• Work
• Lunch
• Work
• Gym
• Cook (Pasta n Pizza :D)
• Dinner
• FB Time
• News, Mail, Surfing
• Phone - Yap Yap Yap!
• Read Book
• Sleep

Coming up next " A picture of something that makes you happy "

Day 20 - Someone you see yourself marrying/being with in the future?

Day 19 - Your earliest memory

Funny, I was talking to my friend about my earliest memory recently. I have absolute no remembrance of my childhoods days, till I was two and a half to three. I have vague flashes of memories from 3 to 5.

So I guess, My real memories start in Bahrain :)

1. I remember, going to school in a car, with few other kids, while my brother went to another school by a bus.

2.I remember the procession of people right outside my house. (People use to beat themselves with swords!. Muslim friends can you help me in identifying the festival?). I was too scared to go to school after this!

3. I remember liking a diamond shaped , green colored sweet, which my parents say was KAJU KATHILI.

4. I remember my Pink Panther doll.

5. I remember, i was embarassed by saying " I will EAT my milk and come" to my neighbours, and then refused to go back to their house, since the embrassement was too high for a kid of three years to have said EAT and not DRINK! :P

Coming up next " Day 20 - Someone you see yourself marrying/being with in the future?"

Day 18 - Plans/dreams/goals you have?

I am tempted to say like tamizh padam, " En vazhkayin kurikol, kanavu, latchiyam elame TR oda latest padatha pakanumnu dhan" :P (Lookie!!!! T Rajendran the dude, below picture. Courtesy: I searched for "t rajendran + handsome" in google images!)

But on a serious note, I have plans to start a business, someday!, dreams of achieving high on either professional or personal front ( see am being realistic!), and my goals are towards a positive a better future for me and the people around me!

Day 17 - Someone you would want to switch lives with for one day and why?

I would really really want to have had switched my life with my Dad's on 26th November 2007!

Why? : Well, to understand what it feels, to know that you are dying, having young & immature children and knowing the pain of letting go despite more than your best efforts!

Why 26 Nov 2007: Well better me than him any day!

PS: For my concerned friends, if at all you bother to read this :P, I am not depressed, just stating what I think! So no worries, after all it is a tag. And I am not in a wonderland for my wishes to come true! :P

PPS: I have just realized that, I am unable to let it go! :( ...despite my best attempts to live with it, if not forget it, i am still holding on to it.

Desperate?

Maybe!!

Day 16 - Your current relationship, if single discuss how single life is.

I dont want to talk about it! :P

Day 15 - Put your iPod on shuffle: First 10 songs that play?

1. Dil se - Dil se re

2. Bombay - Uyire Uyire

3. Endhiran - Boom Boom Robo da

4. May Matham - Madrasa suthi paka poren ( Never knew I had this one :P)

5. Punnagai Mannan - Enna Satham indha neram

6. Bharathiyaar Songs - Endhayum Thayum (Devotional)

7. Zeher - Woh Lamhe

8. Saroja - Kodana Kodi

9. Bharathiyaar Songs - Chinnan chiru kiliye (Devotional)

10. DDLJ - Mere khwabon mein

Non tamilian audience, kindly excuse. I have loaded mostly Tamil songs :P

Day 14 - A picture of you and your family

The four of US back then...



A decade later,

Day 13 - Your views on drugs, alcohol and religion

Since the topic is not co-related, i will sub divide it into "My views on Drugs", "My views on Alcohol", "My views on Religion". Here we go,

My views on Drugs:

To be completely honest, I still can't understand the concept. My only knowledge of it is from films, so I always think drugs means either you inject or smell some crap to get HIGH! But I have also seen the horrific pictures of its after effects. I can't understand why someone would do something like this to themselves. But all things said, I believe that the root cause of these problems is the Media for exaggerating all these things and the young minds get fascinated by drugs. At this tender age, they are rebellious and try to fight against anything good. And when they see all this exaggeration, they try to become one of the so called "COOL" people. Proper parental guidance can help them a long way. A friendly parent or any elderly member of the family need to talk to them and give them educational insights about the problems with law and health. Most importantly stronger measures is to be taken to BAN these stuff.

My views on Alcohol:

Whoever says " It's an office party! I need to drink or people won't accept in my official circle' should be hanged :P Come on, I don't say it is wrong, but the ways you justify it, plain Stinks!

It is an individual perception and there is no such thing as too much fun "only after alcohol". Life is beautiful there are OTHER ways to enjoy it too.

Drink, have fun, be safe and it is good to go. Anything in moderation is good.

My views on Religion:

Here comes the sore spot. Who is allowed to decide their religion? We are either born into it or we are manipulated into it ;-)

Do people really know, what their religion preaches? or do they follow it?

My view is every religion just brings some book of codes on how to lead life in a better way, How to be a good human being. But if every religious fanatic / or every person who follows a religion, really follows these books to the "T". Do you really think the world will be so unsafe?